Monitoring Kids' Technology Use

By: Caitlin Bootsma

There is a lot of information out there about software that can monitor kids' technology use. Some involve using a specific program, while others may be offered through your internet provider. These programs can assist in monitoring technology and also in limiting access and hours of time spent online.

While these tools can be an essential part of making sure your kids' online activities are healthy and safe, they can't provide the same guidance that you can as a caring adult, a parent or a caregiver.

Here are just a few tactics to consider for creating an environment that protects your kids and teaches them how to use the internet safely—especially for the home.

• Create a docking station in the kitchen or other public place for all phones, computers, tablets, etc., when not in use.
• Establish a rule that technology can only be used in a public place that can be observed or—if quiet is needed for school assignments—in a bedroom with a door open (keep in mind that cell phones can be taken anywhere, so this may not be as suitable of a rule).
• For younger kids, only allow access to pre-approved sites under your supervision.
• For older kids, regularly discuss what sites they are accessing and let them know that you may view their device activity from time to time.
• Institute and initiate regular conversations about the positive aspects of technology and the aspects that could be dangerous (such as arranging to meet an online acquaintance in person).
• Foster open communication and let the kids in your care know they can always come to you if something online makes them feel unsafe or uncomfortable.
• If you allow your kids to have social media accounts, "friend" or "follow" them as a reminder that everything on social media is public!
• Limit technology use to encourage offline pursuits and have a conversation about why this is so important.
• Consider your own technology habits and what behavior you want to model for your kids. Decide as a family to do things like put phones away at dinner, ending technology access at a certain time of night, or even have a "tech free" day each week (that could perhaps be replaced with "game" night with board games or activities).

Technology is everywhere in our society. Many of us want the next generation to understand it and use it well. At the same time, we know that technology can pose risks to safety as well as keep kids from wanting to engage in other activities. By coming up with technology practices that work for your environment, you can teach the kids in your care how to navigate the digital world in a safe and responsible manner.






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